Anonymous said: Hey girly, new to the Sugar baby thing! But anyway, I have arranged to meet one POT, and he right off the bat wanted to take me to dinner and he even recommended some really fancy places. It sounds pretty legit right? I'm just scared because what if he doesn't like me/etc etc and also, I'm kinda embarrassed to eat at such a fancy place and esp with an older man. I feel like I'll stick out like a sore thumb. Maybe I should take a xanax before I go. LOL.
Hello! :D Thank you for the ask…
No xanax. I know you’re probably just kidding, but this is a dangerous game we play. You’ll need to be at your best to try and impress an older man,not to mention if he does something you aren’t okay with, you can fight back.Never rule out that possibility of danger.. It is okay to be scared, it just tells you you’re human, and it is scary at first, but the right POT can turn into your SD and it wouldn’t be scary at all.
If he doesn’t like you,find someone else,you can do it!
If he takes you to a fancy restaurant,it’s no big deal. Just star up talking about things that you’re interested and that he might be interested in and the rest will follow. :)
I’m trying to get ready for a dinner date with Audi,and my mom is ruining it. This lifestyle I lead made the the primary bread winner for my family for quite a while and she is putting it down. I know she loves me and I know she is looking out for my best interest,but this is bothering me so much. Has this lifestyle ruined me? I am a good girl by almost everything,except for the sugar lifestyle because it’s taboo,but I still can’t shake these feelings off.
It’s like now that my parents are getting their footing back for the first time since the housing market crash,now they can say what apparently they and society is thinking of us sugarbabies?
I have a job. The same nanny job that I now love after some difficult times, for 2 year,and I have had my arrangement with Audi for 3 years! What am I supposed to do? How am I supposed to feel? I don’t quite know.
I think I am in shock because I didn’t expect this from my mother of all people,whom I confide in with everything.
Now I don’t even want to curl my hair.
I’m eating a White Chocolate Raspbverry Buntlet, or whatever they call it, while I mull over things with my parents in my head.
I feel the overwhelming urge to apologize, because I never raise my voice to them, but I don’t think I was wrong.
So,my parents know I sugar. They’ve been knowing for a while right now. I even tell my parents where Audi and I have gone, what we went to see,what we ate,and even show them pictures. I consider myself to be really close with them,especially my mother.
But I was at their house picking up my dog and I was talking about money problems because my car needs hella work and my parents suggested I get another job, and I told her I was considering that. And then I jokingly said, “Maybe I’ll even get another benefactor.”
And my parents both went into the disconcerting mode with the dismayed tones and everything. I immediately said,”Don’t both of you dare slut shame me for everything that this lifestyle has helped you with…” And then they started asking why I don’t have that much money right now and where does it all go and if Audi still gives me an allowance.
I don’t want to go into detail about where it all went in these past few months, on tumblr, but after I angrily gave them the breakdown, I stormed out of there and blamed it on,”Now I have to get ready for school.”
IDK. Am I hurt? Am I angry? What am I? :\
Bigwords.com saved my ass this semester for books. Thank the textbook gods…HAH!
My Mo/We prof is SO funny, I think I’ll enjoy her class, she was cracking jokes.
My Tu/Th prof is SO nice with a little bit of a lisp and soft spoken, but something about his voice made me really sleepy or it could be the fact that the class is from 9:30-11:50. *headdesk*
It’s only the beginning of the semester, let’s see how this semester goes….